Live, Laugh, Be Nice

Be kind, be real, and make people smile. That’s the only, real currency πŸ’° Who cares if you're not part of some group, clique, or "exclusive" circle? Not me. Never have, never will. Besides, I like squares. ⏹️ You didn’t get invited to that one lunch…

To Infinity and Beyond - 2025!

What. A. Year. πŸŽ‰ And 2025 is already on point to be a huge 𝐖!! Lets go back though..... . . . . . - Kicked things off by celebrating 20 years of marriage with a family trip to Hawaii. Pro tip: Nothing strengthens a marriage like watching your kids bicker in paradise. 🌴 - Had the honor…

2 Legit 2 Quit

As humans, we have one really effective weapon. LAUGHTER. 😁 Laughter disarms tension, builds connection, and frankly, makes all the nonsense a little more bearable. It’s a universal language that says, β€œHey, I get it. We’re all in this chaos together.” 🀣 So, the next time life throws a curveball,…

Mom It's Time

Ten years ago today, we laid you to rest. You drifted into the quiet depths of eternity, settling silently on the ocean floor. Sometimes, I find myself standing on the shoreline, gazing out over the endless waters, searching for a sign of you. In the searching, I am reminded of…

Mom. I Remember.

It's been 10 years today. But I remember and will never forget. I π«πžπ¦πžπ¦π›πžπ« when your brother held your hand for the last time. I π«πžπ¦πžπ¦π›πžπ« watching the kids playing on the floor next to your bed. I π«πžπ¦πžπ¦π›πžπ« coming over everyday to see how you were doing. I π«πžπ¦πžπ¦π›πžπ«. I π«πžπ¦πžπ¦π›πžπ«, nearly…

I Built This, Mom!

Circa 1986, as I prepared for Halloween, I had everything in placeβ€”my costume, my bag, my route. But you, you had something else entirely brewing. I remember you stirring a huge bucket, thick smoke curling up from it. β€œMom’s making her homemade root beer again!” You made this…

From Basement Prototype to Nationwide Impact

In 2012, I co-founded a company (https://EVALS.NET) that built a SaaS product out of my basement in California (yes, a basement in Californiaβ€”I know, rare). It started with an idea, a friend dropping by, and a prototype that barely held together. That friend made three phone calls…

Narcissism Should Be Illegal

"Narcissism should be illegal," we said to our lawyers. They understood the impulse. We had a business partner who is a narcissistic sociopath. Not clinical. Descriptive. Someone else's words, but accurate. The kind of person who gets caught lying and responds by lying about the lying.…

Mom, you had a f*$#%ng library

MOM. Mom? MOMMMMM!!! HELLO? She’s probably reading a damn book. Sure enough, if you weren’t responding, you were somewhere in the house, utterly lost in another novel. I could’ve told you I saw Santa, who handed me a ticket to Australia with aliens to sell gift cards…

Mom. We didn't need any rules.

Growing up, as I reflect on my childhood, we had so few rules that they were practically invisible. You encouraged us to live freelyβ€”to color outside the lines, to ignore the confines of lanes, and to embrace creativity in every aspect of life, no matter what. When Jackass aired…